My beautiful sister @tontolet,
Keep smiling always no matter what the situation is. Smiles are contagious, your teeming fans will feed off your smile and perceive your inner strength.
Continue looking beautiful, you owe that to yourself.
Keep yourself busy, rumors are a consequence of your fame, when you are busy, you will notice them less.
Love yourself first, before any other thing you are Tonto, then a mother, sister, friend, mentor, wife etc.
Whatever you do dear, don't forget to smile, the Lord is your strength.